Confidential recovery coaching for high performers.
I hid my addiction behind success.
Now I help high performers break free without blowing up their lives.
Are you struggling with…
Living a double life
You're holding it together publicly while privately managing more than you'd like to admit.
Coping fails
Habits that once helped you get through are now creating more problems than relief.
Fear of losing it all
You want help but can't risk your career, your relationships, or your reputation.
There’s a silent epidemic of high-functioning professionals living double lives, just like I did.
You’re a high performer, founder, executive, director level creative go-getter. You’re outwardly successful yet inwardly exhausted. You’ve spent years perfecting the performance of having it all together, but it's built on fear, shame, and emotional suppression. Your coping mechanisms like alcohol, work, relationships and control have finally stopped working.
You’re looking for an alternative to traditional recovery. You want something more private and less exposed. You might already be sober but find yourself seeking something deeper. You’re looking for a path to emotional sobriety that doesn’t rely on a traditional framework. You need help that honors your intelligence, your privacy, and your drive.
My coaching creates a safe, discreet container where honesty becomes a relief, not a liability. I meet you before you lose everything. I help you take accountability, rebuild trust, and reorient your life around integrity.
The Hushed Healing process for getting better
Whether you’re already sober, watching things crack, or facing the end of the line, the problem’s the same. The way you’ve been managing your life isn’t working anymore. You want to keep what you’ve built without blowing up your world, and you don’t have to keep living like this.
We move things forward using a clear, three-action framework. This is the work that allows you to repair your foundation while the house is still standing. It’s about shifting from a state of constant management to a state of genuine stability.
Help me
Getting honest without self-destruction. Acknowledging the problem doesn’t mean detonating your career, your relationships, or your reputation. You can start privately with someone who’s been in your shoes. This is how you uncover the truth and face what’s happening without burning it all down.
It’s not you, it’s me
Taking responsibility for your actions without blaming others. This is a big shift that you’ll feel over time. You’ll find yourself reacting less and making better decisions by thinking through consequences. We put structure around your life so you can stay grounded even when life throws curveballs.
Help them
Getting out of yourself and helping others. This is the sustaining medicine. When you’re no longer the center of your universe, there are fewer reasons to drink and use. It’s the ultimate way to protect what you’ve built and ensure your progress sticks. By leading with integrity instead of ego, you ensure your life stays standing. You aren’t just surviving anymore. You’re building something solid.
People come to me when their “binkey is broken”
FAQs
Who is Hushed Healing for?
Hushed Healing is for high performers who are still functioning but know something isn’t working anymore.
People with real careers, real responsibilities, and a lot to protect. Founders, executives, creatives, leaders.
You’re not looking to blow up your life to get help. You want privacy, honesty, and support that fits the world you actually live in.
If you’re done white-knuckling and ready for something quieter and more real, this is for you.
Is this therapy or coaching?
I’m a coach with lived experience as a high performing professional who knows what it’s like to look fine on the outside and struggle on the inside. I am not a therapist and don’t pretend to be.
This work is about awareness, integrity, accountability, and building systems that work in real life.
If you want diagnosis, this isn’t it.
If you want grounded support from someone who’s been there, it might be.
Do I need to be sober?
No.
You can be sober, trying to get sober, or not there yet. What matters is honesty and a willingness to look at what’s actually working and what isn’t.